Every time you experience a negative reaction to your ex dating, stop and go through the list of reasons you are no longer married. Is it possible you are uncomfortable with the idea of your ex dating because you are stuck and unable to move forward with your life?
Remembering the negative aspects of your marriage can go a long way in helping alleviate any the unpleasant idea of him/her dating again. I’m sure you’ve heard that saying, “The best revenge is living well.” Well, it’s true!
Each relationship between two people is different, and what you had together during your marriage will never be reproduced with someone else.
And, if you've not moved on to a new relationship of your own, your jealousy may stem from the mere fact that they have. Keeping this in mind will help you to accept the changes that have come as a result and the confusing feelings you are having over your ex dating again.So, when you feel jealousy or discomfort over your ex dating, remember that no one can really take the same place in your ex’s life that you had. Letting go is a process, and it may take you some time and effort to get there. Why not start not worrying about that now, instead of later?
In Social Trends in America and Strategic Approaches to the Negro Problem (1948), Swedish economist Gunnar Myrdal ranked the social areas where restrictions were imposed on the freedom of Black Americans by Southern White Americans through racial segregation, from the least to the most important: basic public facility access, social equality, jobs, courts and police, politics and marriage.… continue reading »
I told my mom I was going for a walk to enjoy my new freedom. A lot of whining and crying.” “Was it really that bad? I’d dreamt about it many times while I’d been away. Everything would become clear while the tingling energy flowed through my body. I looked at the ground and walked down the stairs to my bedroom, flopping on the bed. “Come with me,” the woman ordered, leading me through one of the doors on the left and into a hallway. The room was a small bathroom with pea green tiles. I decided to do as I was told, pretending that being completely naked didn’t bother me in the least. Each room had two beds bolted to the floor and a long cabinet to hold our clothes. “Girl, the most high you’ll get is flushing bananas down the toilet with me.” She laughed.… continue reading »
It’s a good idea to review them so you don’t end up in the situation Norma found herself in, getting denied due to a mistake or negative items you weren’t aware of on your credit reports.… continue reading »