Dating for cougars
Your body won’t bounce back the same; and if he wanted a party girl, he’d be with one, instead of you. The greatest thing about dating someone younger is that he has so many places to show you that you’d never know about otherwise, and visa versa. You’ve had a longer life and inevitably accomplished more than your cub.It’s natural to reference your own history, experiences, victories etc.You probably don’t have the abs you used to back in the day, so get acquainted with flowy tops.The good news is your girls probably grew with age and maybe a little weight gain elsewhere. Play the music you like when he comes over, suggest movies from your youth on movie night, and for goodness sake do not keep up with the Kardashians.Cougars are all the rage for men in their twenties through forties (although the latter are kidding themselves—they’re no young cubs).But just what is it about women in the 40 plus group that is such a turn on?
in conversation, but you have to watch it around a cub. Don’t completely stay quiet about what you’ve done!
Part of what attracts a young guy to an older woman is all her knowledge and experience about careers, travel, relationships and life in general.
When he asks you about your history, don’t be afraid to share.
Like a crop top or too much makeup, catty behavior instantly ages you.
One of your cub’s favorite things about you is you’ve got “vintage” style. He won’t like if you imply he doesn’t know what he’s doing.
He wants to know what’s interesting and popular in your age group. Don’t try to keep up with a young buck by suddenly wanting to go out all throughout the week and drink hard after work. If there are certain things you need to happen in bed, present them in a way so it’s fun for both of you, and not just all in service of your big O.