Ex girlfriend dating another guy


17-Sep-2015 06:09

Not only do you have to deal with feelings of rejection of being dumped, and feelings of loneliness and loss associated with the breakup, you ALSO have to deal with feelings of ineptitude, insignificance and betrayal. The truth is, most guys need to cut their teeth on a couple of relationships before they settle down.

It’s brutal, and if it’s happened to you, I feel for you. The emotional pain was so bad it turned into physical pain combined with the worst types of anxiety I have ever experienced. You’re going to deal with your breakup and move on. I know you guys might have said you were soulmates. There are a million guys that walked that path before you my friend. What’s more, thinking in terms of the one is irrational.

Believing she was the one doesn’t make any logical sense, but more than anything, it is a sign you were probably emotionally dependent on your relationship.

Were you worried more about how she felt, than how you felt?

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Then, there’s breaking up, which is another thing, often associated with feelings of loss, loneliness and even despair. It’s the natural thing to do, especially if it’s your first love, it feels like the only person in the world that can make you happy. Most guys end up with some other woman, and again they’ll have the same feelings of her being the one.

Listen man, I wish I could give you one technique to make all your pain go away. I’m going to be super blunt with you, because if after reading my breakup guide, you’re still hungry for more. “Well that might be true,” you might say, “but then why do I feel this way?” The answer is it’s your emotional brain talking, and we’re gonna start talking back to it with our rational brain.



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